We've been dealing with something that I know is very common among parents, but still taking it's toll on us. Kids that take some serious, constant prodding to get things done. These are our 3 major times of stress:
1. Chores
2. Getting ready for school in the morning
3. Getting ready for bed at night
Morning is a killer because school starts for us at 7:52 am. It's pretty early. They're tired, I'm sometimes tired. However, they move in
slo-mo while I'm rushing around the house trying to do everything at once. For me, it's the most stressful out of the 3 because of the time crunch, but they can all be pretty painful when you feel like you're words are falling on deaf ears. Which as you know if you are a parent, just does not fly. So then my next reaction is to talk louder which the kids are fond of calling "yelling". I tell them that I'm not yelling it's just that apparently they can't hear me so they leave me no choice. But you can see that here is where the spirit of contention eeks its' way in the front door.
We realized we needed a positive disciplinary tactic so we could get a different kind of Spirit back in the house. So here is where our lovely "Reward Jar" comes in. And I'm happy to report that it is gaining momentum. They are starting to work for those marbles. Especially when someone else gets one. Even Sadie! She literally stopped crying mid-screaming fit today because yesterday she got to put in a marble after she calmed down from crying about something. She stopped and said "I'm happy now" at which point I took her straight to the marbles as fast as possible in hopes of reinforcing that one even more.
Emma came up with their reward which is going to
Makudu's Island. It's a huge indoor
treehouse playground place that we've been wanting to try since we moved here. They have to make it to the line about half way up.

The past couple days have really felt different. Yea for something new!
P.S. I had to add a playlist just for this post!
P.S.S. Sorry if you were cut off as you were rockin' out. This is the only version I could find during my 5 min search (haha- you should see this video!).